Hi All!
I hope you are doing great today.
I have been studying self help, positive thinking and energy healing for years, thanks to the teachings of some of the best guru’s around, and if you would like to, I’ll be glad to tell you which ones I prefer above all and why.
It is working more and more for myself, and I’m thrilled (and almost surprised
) to say that I’ve been able to help many people improve their mindset, and thus their life, thanks to this.
I’m still happily working on it each day… tweaking, improving, clearing, enlightening what I already know and practice. You are never finished with this (and for your records, not even gurus are).
There are still moments in which I just want to mumble and complain. But each day I feel so grateful I started studying and applying that in my life. And each day it’s a litte bit easier to send black clouds away and to attract GOOD…
THOUGH… at first it seems SOOO TOUGH, doesn’t it?
It seems it won’t work for you. It is working for everyone but you. You are doing your homework, studying what those wonderful masters are teaching, doing your best to clear all those bad thoughts…
YET! The more you try, the more you create resistance, and all the nice things you want to attract seem to get more and more distant!
And you wonder: “Why do I get stuck???” “Why do I get back to zero???” and above all “How can I actually change my thoughts and possibly my mindset for good???”.
It is not exactly like reprogramming a washing machine, is it? – press a couple of buttons and it’s done, 3 for my most precious clothes… NO WAY.
No worries, you are in good company. And there is even some GOOD NEWS! There is very probably a way out!
One thing I can say for sure is… when you start practicing positive thinking (successful thinking, law of attraction, clearing… whichever approach, philosophy, master or healer is your favorite) very often you definitely have to make it EASY and “PRACTICAL”.
It actually varies a lot form person to person.
There are people who need to touch and see what they are talking about more than others. We are all different and that’s what makes the world a nice place (believe it or not!)
BUT TRUST ME: starting with the HANDS-ON APPROACH, works just great for MANY, MANY people.
What does it mean?
FOR INSTANCE, simply, translating all the beautiful, empowering, life-chaning concepts you learned into PRACTICAL BEHAVIORS.
Begin with little things.
Don’t feel you have to change your pessimistic attitude and become somebody new all at once and all together. It will just make you feel overwhelmed!
Don’t feel you have to attract 100 thousands dollars and not even a brand new luxury car in few days. If you keep yourself on the right track, YOU WILL GET TO THE POINT where everything flows wonderfully and easily, but YOU DON’T NEED TO DO IT RIGHT NOW! And not even next week!
Just focus on feeling good in your everyday life. Concentrate at first on little concrete things.
For instance, every day make a little time and do something that makes you feel good and gives you really pleasant sensations.
You don’t necessarily need to invent something amazing or expensive, just do what YOU like. Even reading a book you love, having a walk in a beautiful park with someone you like, going to the movies with your partner and watch a chick flick… are all things that can make you feel fine and relaxed.
Too many people neglect themselves and those who are really important to them.
The point here is: TREAT YOURSELF BETTER, and do it more often. Create many nice moments to recall to your mind. To retain and recall them more easily later on, create anchors while you are living them: focus on sensations, images, feelings, even smells and colors…
They will be precious to recall and focus on, when you are feeling bad.
It may look like a sort of Basic Positive Thinking For Beginners and well, in some way it is. But rest assured it can make it much much easier to get to the “higher level”.
Sooner than you may think, you are very likely to realize that much bigger changes have happened in your life and to wonder how they could come off so fast.